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Dec

Sex and Singaporeans

   Posted by: Chip   in Singapore

Well, life is not all about sex anyway. I don’t know if I look easy-going or it’s just a normal matter for adults.

One evening when I was randomly walking around City Hall, I lost the way. I didn’t have a map then I asked a young guy who stood next to me. After showing me the map, he smiled at me: “Are you alone?” – “Yep” – “Do you want to stay with me tonite? I’m alone too”. I looked at him carefully. He seemed Taiwanese, pretty handsome and well-educated. He’s a tourist. I smiled back at him: “I’d love to, but no, thanks”. He continued his talk as if nothing ever happened. Sex seems to be very normal.

I stayed at Garag3, and Justin stayed there as well. One morning Shahidah asked me where Justin was. I told her I didn’t know. She looked at me strangely: “You didn’t sleep with him yesterday?” Wtf?? I never sleep with him.

I’m not a party person. I don’t like parties, bars, clubs,etc. But it’s ok if you talk about sex while I’m there. Maybe I’m very open-minded, and hang out with guys a lot, but I’m still an Asian girl. Ok, forget it. Maybe I’m too young to talk about it.

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8 comments so far

 1 

hey dear! later you should be more careful since we’re Asian girl…sigh!!! better hang out with trusted people so there would be no stranger guys asking you about #$%#! thingsss….happy that we’re the same :D hmm…when people start talking about sex,bt i would become speechless!

January 5th, 2009 at %I:%M %p
 2 

It’s fun to read your experience. Thanks

March 1st, 2009 at %I:%M %p
 3 

Oh! Your article is very impressive. I like it and your thoughts. And I really wonder why the man could ask you a question like that. I am very opened-mind for sex and like it. But the man in your article is really impolite when ask a girl to have sex with him by that way.

BTW, your article is great!

March 31st, 2009 at %I:%M %p
Ray
 4 

I once worked with a guy who did what that Taiwanese guy did. We asked him if any girl ever said yes. He said some did, maybe one in 500. But he said that wasn’t bad because he could ask 100 girls a day.
A girl in Singapore did come up to me and ask if I wanted to have sex. It was on the street in front of the Hyatt where she apparently was self-employed. (I said no too, even though I’m an American guy.)

April 27th, 2009 at %I:%M %p
 5 

Haha, thank for the nice post on your experienced trip, Chip. I must say Singapore is not as interesting as Penang and Hat Yai in term of sex and gay humor.

Would love to share in person in the future.

June 18th, 2010 at %I:%M %p
admin
 6 

Wow I’ve never noticed that I have comments on this post. It’s amazing how dramatically my point of view on sex has changed since then.
@Rath Yes we do have to be careful. However, if somebody comes and asks me the same question, I’d react differently.
@Long Thanks :)
@Nhonpt Thank you very much! It was the first time I was asked the question. Now I realize that it’s a norm among travelers. I’m no longer pissed but take it as a compliment instead.
@Ray The conversion rate is pretty high I guess.
@Johny Yes, can’t wait for your gay experience either.

June 18th, 2010 at %I:%M %p
 7 

8-) an address to your blog post was at Themelis Cuiper’s SocialGarden Business happenings of socialmarketing & branding’s list of recommended web pages – so you must be doing an awesome job as he provides a hyper link to you.

August 21st, 2011 at %I:%M %p
Nha
 8 

I respect our Asian tradition but it’s weird that many Asian guys( like that Taiwanese you met) won’t forgive for girls who say’yes’ if these girls may be their future wives, right? It’s not fair when a lot of Asian husbands ask virgin from their wife but they had sex with other girls before getting married.

September 23rd, 2011 at %I:%M %p

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